The ex-wife loved to drag as many people into her bullshit as she possibly could. And it made it even better if was family, even if they weren’t her family. She targeted my family for about two years, trying to drag them into all the fights she could think up and make me look like the bad guy to them at every turn. Fortunately for me, they all knew she was bat shit crazy and most of them literally lived through her bullshit with us.
They all saw the shit she tried to pull and knew what was going on behind the curtain. So, she wasn’t very successful….that however, didn’t stop her from trying! If she was ignored when she reached out to someone, she would have the kids do it. Or she would go into the kid’s e-mails/Facebooks, whatever and act like the kids to get whoever she was messaging to fall for the pity act she would lay out and play so well.
The first time she reached out to my family, it was my sister-in-law with a story about how she couldn’t afford to pay for the girls to cheer anymore because my husband wasn’t paying his child support. She went on to say that we were actively stalking and harassing her…daily. My sister-in-law of course knew better, she actually lived with us at the time. She knew what was going on and knew that the ex-wife would do anything she could get as many people as she could to turn against us.
The next victim was my dad. He worked for our local sheriff’s office at the time, she called and sent him letters, acting like it was from the kids. She never actually got to talk to him on the phone, the secretary was a real G. She sent the ex-wife to voice mail or would take a message! Amanda knew this woman was crazy and knew that she had no real reason to speak to my dad. That didn’t stop her from calling and trying to speak to him every other day for like a month.
She even sent my mom a friends request on Facebook…We literally laughed until we cried. In complete hysterics!! I wish I could say we were completely thrown for a loop and surprised, but in reality no one was surprised! This was not out of the realm for her, not even close and in all honesty, I think we were kinda waiting to see who she would do this with. It just happened to be my mom. She thought about accepting it just to see what bullshit the ex-wife would come up with.
She gave up on my in-laws, they had been dealing with her shit for so long by this point, they just blocked and ignored her. She reached out to our niece for a while, when she did this our niece immediately text me to tell me the ex-wife had sent her a message on Facebook. I told her to go with it and see what she wanted. Of course it was the same old bullshit, same lies and back to us stalking her or not paying child support. After she asked our niece to share her log-in for Facebook so that she could stalk our Facebooks….she was dead fucking serious! Our niece blocked her that day!
When all this failed, she went to anyone she thought was a close friend and tried to get to them. She would find people on Facebook that I would comment with and she would send them messages asking if we were friends. She even sent a few friends request to a couple of them. She literally wouldn’t stop at anything for a couple years. It was insane, stalker-ish and creepy! At one time she was even sending requests under a fake name but, it was just her name spelled backwards…so, everyone knew! LOL
Now that the middle kid is married, she has reached out to her husband trying to get in contact with her…10 years after she went no contact! He does not respond to her. It’s very apparent the ex-wife has been stalking them also because, she knows information about their lives that they have not posted or talked about publicly…..because they did not want her to know. We would not be surprise if she hired a PI to find out information about them like she has done to us.
There’s more things she had done, more people she has tried to contact and we are sure more than one PI she has hired to get information on us. We are no longer surprised at the lengths she will go to find out anything she thinks she could us against us. Anything that she could twist to make us look like the bad guys in her story.
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