The first birthday my husband and I spent together….Also, the night we got pregnant with our first born! HaHa. I loved to go dancing, line dancing specifically and it was his birthday to celebrate! We had a couple country bars we enjoyed going to and would go to regularly. This one was a little ways from home for us but, it seemed to be a little quieter than the other one we enjoyed.
We also choose that bar because he didn’t think the ex-wife would go that far to find us. He was absolutely wrong! We had only been in the building for about an hour before she showed up and of course had to make her presence known. She didn’t approach us, but was definitely trying to be intimidating..or something! She had a friend with her doing the same thing.
We ignored her and went about our night. We danced and kept having a great time. She took her chance as soon as I went to the bathroom. Her and her friend went directly to him. She immediately started running her hands all over him, started trying to convince him to go home with her and her friend for his birthday “gift”. He said no, pushed her off and walked to the bathroom to wait for me…she was pissed!
As soon as I came out of the bathroom, he grabbed me and said “it’s time to go”. I didn’t question him, we walked out with her screaming and throwing a fit like a two year old that had her lollipop taken away. She truly didn’t think he would turn her down and leave with me. In her words “He never tells me no”. So, when he did she lost it!
Talking with my husband later on, he said when they first split up, he wouldn’t always tell her no. But, since we had started seeing each other, he told her no every time and she didn’t like that. I guess it was ok for her to move on, move in with another man but, he wasn’t allowed to do the same. I guess when you cheat on the best man you had, you get pissed when they move on.
Now, this isn’t the only time she showed up at a bar we were at, this was just one of many! But, this is one of my favorite times because she wholeheartedly walked in thinking she was going to get him to leave me there and was utterly disappointed!
Before this night, she had followed us to The Dallas Bull, a tiny bar with a big line every night to get in! It’s actually the bar we meet in! She literally put her hand down my cleavage that night, I was absolutely stunned and had my husband not been standing next to me I would’ve ended up in jail. We found out like a month later that she had placed a tracker on my husband’s truck and thats how she knew where we were!
This information was surprising as hell back then but it’s definitely not anymore. I mean she hired a PI to stalk us and we live 2500 miles away from her! And that was something she admitted to in court!
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